Time to reconsider

I have trouble telling if I'm overreacting about things or if I'm possibly brushing them off too easily. I know I obviously blow stuff out of proportion sometimes because I'm a girl, because I'm a Boryczka girl (yes, that matters), but I also know I'm too lenient about other things. Complacent? Perhaps. Or maybe I see all the fights going on that don't involve me and would rather not add to the drama any more than I feel is necessary. I'm not saying I'm any good at keeping things peaceful, having been the cause of numerous arguments during my time, but at least I can say I'm trying.